Tuesday, February 25, 2014

From the AFSP and The Williams Institute - Suicide Attempts among Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming Adults

I posted this over at silly trans woman first but wanted to share here as well. With numbers like these we must act to end discrimination. Please help by educating and sharing. We need to do so much more to help our LGBT friends and family but we cannot do it if people do not fully understand the problems or who (trans men and women) are.

- Kat

Some of the key findings include:

Suicide attempts among trans people who...

... tell others they are trans are at about 50%
... believe that others can almost always tell are 45%
... have disabilities ranges from 55 - 65%
... have been rejected by their families is 57%
... have a doctor who refuses to treat them is 60%
... experienced homelessness is 69%

Read the report

Thursday, February 20, 2014

College education for low income families: Maximizing financial aid

For teenagers growing up in poverty, the future can look pretty dismal. Whether entering the workforce before or after high school, the need to survive can leave very little room for young adults to plan for the kind of career and future they want. Instead of finding work they want to do, they find the kind of work they need to pay the bills. For many, the thought of going to college can seem like a far, far away dream. However, a college education can be the ticket out of poverty and into a financially stable life.

Fortunately, there are many resources available for teenagers and young adults whose families cannot afford a college education. The problem is that many young people and their parents do not realize these resources are available. Below I have included some basic info and tips for maximizing the your financial aid options. Let's make that dream a reality!


#1 - Make the grade!

After all, you need to get into college before you can get financial aid! While perfect or stellar high school grades aren't a must-have for getting into college or qualifying for financial aid, good grades certainly open up the door to additional types of funding. Most of my undergraduate financial aid came from need-based grants and scholarships, however I was also able to gain a merit based grant that covered my tuition by itself.

#2 - Fill out and submit your Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA)

This will be the most important step you take in securing financial aid as a college student. It takes into account your familial income and calculates the estimated contribution your family would be able to make towards your college education (When I applied, my estimated family contribution was $0 - yikes!). This will be the basis for the types of financial aid you will be eligible for. For lower EFCs (estimated family contribution), the more likely you are to qualify for need based assistance.

NOTE: FAFSA is a free application that can be found at https://fafsa.ed.gov/. There are a lot of websites asking for money to submit your FAFSA. Avoid these websites, they are trying to rip you off!

#3 - Decide carefully on a school

Once you are accepted, you will get a financial aid offer. This will likely include a combination of grants, work-study, loans, and (if you are lucky) scholarships. An important thing to keep in mind is that while the amount of financial aid offered may be the same across schools, the tuition, fees, and cost of living may differ. It is important to compare the total cost of attending that school (including tuition, housing, food, transportation, etc.) with the amount of financial aid you are given. Take into account whether or not you can live at home with family, how much rent or dorms cost, how much meal plans cost, whether you need transportation to get to class. These factors can differ dramatically between universities!

Some colleges and universities also offer special programs for low-income students. For example, my university guaranteed that students below a certain income level would have enough financial aid options to cover the entire cost of attendance (including tuition, fees, books, meals, and housing).  Check to see if the schools you applied to have these kinds of programs. They can really make a difference!

Although it wasn't my first choice, the university I attended had much lower fees than the others I was accepted to. The cost of living was also cheaper than in the other cities I had considered. Because of that, the amount of financial aid I received was able to cover not only tuition and fees, but also about 6 months worth of rent. At the other schools, the financial aid packages only covered tuition and fees. What I didn't get in financial aid I was able to make up by working part time throughout all 4 years.

#4 - Apply for local scholarships and scholarships within your school or department.

Many counselors recommend students look for scholarships on sites like Fastweb.com. However, because most of these are national scholarships, they are MUCH harder to get. Rather than wasting time applying for the same scholarship as thousands of other students, look for smaller local scholarships or scholarships through your college/university. Universities will usually have scholarships for entering freshmen. While easier than applying for national scholarships, these can also be difficult to secure if you plan on attending a larger school with a large incoming freshman class. If you know your major, you can also check your department for scholarships. This again reduces the number of possible applicants and increases your chances of getting a scholarship.

#5 - Maximize grant, scholarship, and work-study money before accepting loans.

If you get enough financial aid that you don't need student loans, do not get student loans! These are your last resort funding mechanisms for school and living expenses. Even with need-based grants, it can still be difficult to cover ALL expenses. If you are able to work without your grades suffering, work-study programs or other on-campus student jobs can be a huge help to fill the gaps left by financial aid. What remaining expenses you have left can be covered in loans, but this should be your last option.

If you do take out student loans, be sure to get federally subsidized student loans. These will not gather interest while you are in school and will be cheaper to pay back in the long run. Also, it is very important to only take out what you need! Though you may have been awarded a $5000 student loan, you may only need $1000 to make ends meet. You can accept parts of the loan without accepting the entire thing. So if you only need $1000, only take out $1000. You can always take more out later if you need it. This should minimize the amount of debt you leave college with.

While gathering the money and resources to go to college can be a major pain, it can open the door for many individuals to get out from below the poverty line and make a new future for themselves. The most important thing is to understand that it is possible - the dream of going to college CAN be a reality.



Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Welcome!

Hey Everyone!

Welcome to my Silly Humanist Blog :)

I've been fortunate enough to experience many facets of life. I have seen both sides of the socioeconomic coin, from poverty and homeless couch-surfing to riding in limousines and dining on exuberantly priced steaks. I have spent much time in the LGBT community sharing in the joys, struggles, and heartbreaks of my dearest friends while navigating the often hostile social jungles of the US. I have also managed to survive being a liberal in Texas without spontaneously combusting (Scary, I know!). My childhood was enriched with the wonder and comforts of religion and spiritual progress, yet after years of soul searching I grew up to become a secular humanist.

My motivation for this blog is the discussion of modern day social issues and thinking through different ways to navigate them. Issues close to my heart are poverty, education, and LGBT rights, as well as overcoming ethnic and gender biases. However, I also want this project to more broadly address what it means to be human - because at the end of the day it doesn't matter whether we are discussing women's rights or LGBT rights; we are discussing human rights.

I hope you all enjoy and provide your own insights as I embark on this project.

Jordan Leigh
The Silly Humanist